When your friends are sad ?

In our life, we sometimes have to face and overcome the sadness. At such times, we often share our trouble with our friends to look forward to understanding. However, it is difficult to say words of comfort in these sensitive cases. Even you may make your friend more grief. Therefore, you shouldn’t say the following statements:

1. I know how sad you are! You say this word in order to identify with your friends but it also has the opposite effect. They may lose trust in you because they think that you do not really care about their sadness.

2.  Call me if you need anything!  What to do when they are bored is that they just want to be left alone. As a result, all your attention becomes meaningless.

3. Every thing will be ok in the end! When your friends bored, saying this word only make them more downhearted. Maybe their sadness will pass quickly, but at that moment it is impossible.

4. Do not be sad, remember you always stronger. This statement is nonsense and it means you completely express powerless in face of their sadness. Your words will make them lose confidence and sink in blue.

5. Crying does not solve anything! What to do when your friends are bored? they will cry loudly. It’s because they feel painful indeed and don’t know how to overcome their sadness. If you say so as they will cry more.

Always remember that “life does not put things in front of you that you are unable to handle”. When your friends are sad, pointing it out to them is not helpful. Instead, try to sympathize and stay by their side.